The woman dumped her boyfriend after two years for doing drugs secretly behind her back and lying to her about it. This resulted in him totaling her car.
So she isn't looking to date but weve been out for drinks once. We also drove an hour away for lunch and went nature hiking at the botanical gardens.
She seemed happy. Even mentioned her ex would have never done anything that interested her.
She mentioned a concert she liked. So i got tickets to it and told her. Well this scared her off. Got her to tell me this.
Then i fractured my knee. Needed money. Had to sell tickets due to that and the fact she ignored me since i bought them and scared her. Too much to fast.
So im selling them to her for 210$ paid 288$.
Told her to enjoy them and have fun.
She is coming to pick them up Wednesday. How do i recover from this on Wednesday. Might be tough but im up to the challenge.
Lets hear your ideas.
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I can see how she got scared, it did seem like too much, too soon.
I'd recommend asking her for a couple of minutes to talk when she picks them up. Try to have a casual mindset and don't act too appologetic. Just tell her that you didn't mean to intrude, but since she likes the band and you do too, you just went and bought them, without thinking how it might come across. That you have realized, that you should have asked her first if she wanted to go and most of all, for her to pay for her own ticket.
Tell her you simply like her company and tought it could be a fun thing to do. nothing more, nothing less.
That you understand that she is not looking to date anyone romantically any time soon and that you are OK with that.
That you did that out of a feeling of friendship.
Tell her that you would hate for this misunderstanding to come between you and that she could hopefully let this one slide and you will leave it up to her if she wants to keep in contact or not.
I know this isn't necessarily true, because you DO like this woman but if you really want to be friends with her you will have to put those feelings aside and try to be a friend.
You also need to keep dating other women, romantically, Because if you don't you will fall in love with her and stay in the friend zone forever. Have options so you don't focus all of your energy on her.
She now needs time to work out her emotions over the break up. Some people need more time than others, but as of now, there is no certain timeframe.
BTW: the ticket price you are asking for is fair. Don't offer to go lower. If she happens to offer full price, accept it.1