They were on and off for a couple of months (he keep breaking up with her and getting back with her). But he tried to stay friends with her after. She was throwing a party for one of her friends, and he went (even though he spent the whole day out on a trip with his club!) He literally came back from his trip, changed, and went with one of his best friends. His friend wanted to go home after awhile so he dropped him off, just to come back to hang out with her and her friends -- but the party was over. Now I found out that HE ENDED UP KISSING HER! He wasn't even drunk.
She's known him a lot longer than I have. I only met him a couple of months ago. He never told her about me, so it's not like she came on to him to spite me. He wanted to stay over after the party, but she told him he shouldn't.
Throughout the time I've known him, they've kissed a couple of times. She even came over his place at 3am just to hangout! He even tried to kiss her then, too. I know for a fact they weren't friends with benefits. But one time he went over her place to drink with her and her roommates. And he slept over -- IN HER BED! They didn't do anything, but that was around the time we started talking.
Does he still have feelings for her? Did he settle for me because he couldn't have her?
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