I am a very busy guy and work a desk job. It's been very hard to stay active and the money is good so naturally I've been treating myself to good meals and everything. Work has been stressful at times too and I think the mix of that and being a bit inactive has caused a little bit of weight gain. I think I've put on roughly 10 pounds over the summer.
Overall I have a slimmer appearance I would say, but there's still a bit of unwanted fat in places. What do you think?
Don't get me wrong though, I am trying to be better about getting back into shape!
You can but try to work on your appearance. It takes effort to look good and it's just a personal pet peeve of mine when someone expects their partner to look a certain way but won't put in the effort to do the same. Try to make time to work out and eat clean.
you gaining I'm losing it because of stress lol... if you make the girl laugh and smile don't worry about that fat
Again another guy who only seems to care about attractive looks, even though he doesn't take care of himself... If you are overall attractive, you'll have better chance attracting attractive females. Gaining few pounds will not make anyone ugly though
First off, good for you on deciding on getting back into shape. To answer your question, yes its possible. Appearance only runs skin deep and it is important to remember that. The thing from what I've read that is holding you back is being very busy. Relationships take time and they don't happen overnight. The best relationships are those in which you are already friends and you want to try and be more than that. Personally that is what I look for. Patience is key.