I have been single for almost all my adult life. Guys say I am beautiful and I believe so, and many times I have guys flirting with me from their cars or in the street. But when it comes to finding a non-player serious guy, I have a very hard time.
I have had inly a very few relationships in my life. I was the busy studying girl until my graduate studies. There were times I was completely unaware of my beauty. I always thought I was not interesting to guys, and this changed later.
Now what disturbs me is that I am the only one in the circle of friends who is single. This makes me feel uncomfortable and singled out.
People keep asking me why I am single and I pretend it's Ok with me, but it's not.
I stated to believe God doesn't have plans for me to get married.
I feel bitter especially after a guy I have always hoped he makes the first move -we are friends but I suspect he likes me- didn't say anything.
Why do you think I am single?
Most Helpful Guy
I can feel your desperation , but letme tell u a few things to do...
1. pray - pray to lord, to send the right man for u, trust me it works like wonders.
2. try to send non verbals signs of attraction like eye contact, opening ur body, standing near him, not at bars, but at churches and religious place and charity events, because those are the places where u meet quality guys.
3. try to obsever guys, if u like certain traits in a guy, try to talk to them,
if ur showing u like them doesn't mean u are desperate for sex, it just lets u open conversation with u,
best of luck
Sources :-- got my girl after 25 years of my life on earth, she was my first girlfriend, i lost my virginity with her, i was in same condition as u, i believed there is no girl in my life, but then lord sent her,
i did all these things, and hope it works for u as well.0