I posted a similar question a couple of days ago. I am a woman in my 40's and quite attractive and don't look at all my age. Besides the point, I met a man online and we agreed to meet. There was enormous chemistry between us, and our good night kiss was spectacular. He did call and text me the next day, and we subsequently went on four more dates within the next 10 days. He has conveyed to me that he is attracted to me, really likes me, has feelings for me and will "be there" for me. He is also a man in his 40's as well, as has been divorced over 18 months. He went so far as to hide his profile on the site on which we met (told me he was doing it), and told another woman that he was seeing casually that he was no longer interested in her, but in seeing only me. He has not communicated with me in five days. Am I being paranoid? Should I call or let it ride? What could possibly be causing him to be so cold all of a sudden?
It COULD be a fairytale ending.....?
What Girls Said 1
Something might have come up like a family issue, an impromptu trip for business or is just busy. I wouldn't fret just yet or overanalyze things. I think you might want to pick up the phone and just give him a call to say "hi." There's nothing wrong with reaching out to him. I am sure when you both touch base that there will be a valid explanation.
What Guys Said 1
Just call him. If he is your boyfriend then it does not hurt to call. People in their 40's should have given up on playing games and following so-called "dating rules" a long time ago.0
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