I have a close friend for almost 9 years who has been there for me during some rocky times and relationships and I've done the same for her.
We always can hang out and have fun regardless, we always have each others back and a platonic relationship. She is kind of a wild card in terms she "gets around" a lot with both men and women and does some drugs (weed, ecstasy). We both don't find each other attractive, we're almost close family hence I call her sis most of the time.
I've never judged or pretty much cared for the most part, It doesn't bother me besides I don't the same thing. However I feel like my past ex's and current girlfriend was uncomfortable about it but never said anything out of respect.
How would you feel?
- It would bother me and I'd say something to him.25% (3)67% (2)33% (5)Vote
- It would bother me but I would keep it to myself.42% (5)0% (0)33% (5)Vote
- I wouldn't care.25% (3)0% (0)20% (3)Vote
- I wouldn't even stay with them.8% (1)33% (1)14% (2)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
To be honest, no. This is where trust comes into the relationship. Yes, it's true guys and girls can be friends with no strings attached. I personally think that it's quite healthy to have best friends in the opposite gender as well as having a girlfriend or boyfriend. There's no need to get jealous, you just need to be mature and understanding. That's why it's called love1