This guy Im hooking up (at work) with has told me many times "Its NOT like your my girlfriend or I have feeling for you" OR "If you sleep with someone else let me know, use condoms. Im being honest with you so you can be honest with me." "You gotta know what you want"
I never told him I wanted to be with him. We just never had that talk. He knows I like him. Cause at first I was not sure if I wanted to be with him or not but after spending a lot of time with him I do want to be with him but after him saying all that I will MOST likely just tell him I can no longer do this.
He says this but his actions dont match. He parks next to me at work so he can walk me to my car after work, waits to take his lunch with me, gets jealous when guys hit on me, when Im gone too long or not around him at work he goes looking for me. I always catch him looking at me at work. he's called me baby and honey. he's cooked me breakfast and bought me diner. We talk almost everyday. The customers see it, they always think were together. We hangout at his house almost everyday. When its time for me to go tries to get me to stay.
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He sounds like a young man too hung up on macho image to be honest with himself about what he really wants. He has some maturing that must happen before he's ready for a real relationship.1