We never dated and I've only known him for a month but for some reason I can't stop thinking about this one guy... Things seemed to be going so well between us. We went on two dates and had lots of fun but then all of a sudden he started ignoring me, which I believe is my fault cause I didn't show enough interest. I have a tendency to push people away when they get too close so I'm guessing that's what happened this time as well. Usually I don't really care cause I try not to get too attached but the fact that he's ignoring me drives me crazy. He's the first guy to ever do that and it seems that despite my attempts to not get too close I developed some feelings for him. Otherwise I wouldn't care so much, right? I've never dated anyone or even had a crush so I don't know what to do in this situation. How do I get over it? I tried asking him why he's ignoring me but he just denied it and went back to ignoring me... :(
Why is it so hard for me to get over him?
What Guys Said 1
You should talk to him, give him attention.
A girl did this exactly to me, she showered me with attention and non verbal signs that she liked me but i ignored her like plague.
And now, she talks to someone on phone to make me jealous, now i realise what i have lost,
i started talking to her now , she feels so happy and as if she won me... she is always smiling and keeps the conversation going when we are talking,
talk to him... its your gut feeling telling you to trust him...1
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