I'm chubby, and I could loose a few pounds. Though it's not like I don't try. I exersize daily, and I eat right, though I can't seem to lose weight. I maintain the same weight, but can never lose anything. I'm smart (4.0 GPA), and people tell me I have a pretty face, and an amazing personality. All my other high school girlfriends are getting boyfriends left and right, while I'm stuck a loner. What is it guys go for? I mean the skinny girls with flawless bodies?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think your weight is an issue, just by the way you described things. At 14, a lot of guys aren't mature enough to go after someone who isn't really flirty and a porn star in training. You'll find the right guy, it will just take some time and you may have to go outside of school to do it. Remember to be choosy! Having not dated before, you probably feel desperate, but keep your standards high.1
Most Helpful Girl
Don't take this the wrong way, but you are only 14. Teens are still trying to figure out what they want and how to do things. I wouldn't sweat it. You sound like an amazing person, keep it up!
At 14, I did have a boyfriend briefly. He was going too fast for me and I felt uncomfortable so I ended it. I was "pretty" (did beauty pageants and was on the homecoming court) but I didn't date until I was almost 18. I felt better about myself, knew kind of what I liked and had better opportunities.2