I wasn't really happy and my girlfriend got a little mad cause i guess i wasn't really for going about it and i just acted more shocked then actually happy. I mean i understand what i did and now that i got the time to calm down, i'm just wondering how can i handle this? I'm in no way ready for a child at all
Most Helpful Girl
Hey, there are other options. You can always abort it.
If you are still young, and not financially ready for a baby this may be a good option. You need to hear her out of course though. Tell her how you really feel about it. Can you picture being a dad?
Have you talked to her family? What about yours? It's a scary thing, I know. But plenty of people have gone through this, you guys can too. I'm just happy that you didn't leave the girl behind. So many guys knock up girls and end up leaving them behind.0
Most Helpful Guy
Well according to society because you are male you lost your rights to make your own choices from that point forward when you had sex. I know it's not fair that you're the only person that has lost all their rights when having sex but to fight back against that is an uphill battle. Because you'll be shamed hardcore for not being manly or immature. It's called toxic masculinity and it's pretty strongly used in these situations against guys.0