I remember when I was a virgin after middle school, at the age of 14. "Well, I still have high school." After I graduated from high school at 18. "Well, high school girls are superficial, I still have college." Then, I graduated with my Bachelor's at 22 years old. "Well, undergrad college girls only go for the rich guys on campus, so maybe grad school will be better." Then I got out with my Master's at 24. "Well, in my career as a counselor, I will meet more mature and professional women." Here I am, a high school counselor for four years now, and still never had sex. I've been rejected by so many women, it doesn't even seem possible. The worst part is, I'm good looking, yet, girls still ignore me. My friends can't even give me advice anymore. They told me they're clueless and to "keep trying." I get sick of "keep trying" as my advice. I've still never even been on a date. I remember trying to get my first "date" at 11 years old (granted, I Was a kid but still.) You can say for roughly 19 years now, I've been trying to get with a girl. I want sex, but I also wouldn't mind having someone to hang out with. I had a high school senior male come up to me and tell me he is lonely. I told him to now worry about high school girls, because most of them are backstabbing, prudish cunts (he thought that was funny.) I thought it would get better in college and it didn't. They usually went after the rich popular guys, which is a shame. I expeted more open-mindedness. So, should I just give up? Should I accept the fact I'll be a lifelong, single, virgin?
I turn 30 in a month and I've never had sex. Should I give up?
What Girls Said 4
just pay for it if you are really that desperate0
dont give up!1
What Guys Said 10
Well judging from the fact that you're blaming your lack of success with women ON women, I would say you need to work on your mindset if you want to have success. Negative people are extremely unattractive.
Some guys are naturally good with women, and some guys have to put a lot of effort into it, just like any other skill. Things aren't likely to just "get better" without some sort of catalyst.4
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You're an idiot. Just based off this bullshit post I know how judgmental you are of others. Not all girls "want rich guys" or what ever other bullshit you say. You see the opportunity as "OMG A GIRL, A CHANCE TO HAVE SEX". You think that's gonna work?
If people reject you there's a reason for it, however you're too self absorbed to blame yourself, so you blame others. Maybe you have a shit personality, or you're just ugly. I don't know, but whatever the reason, find it, stop blaming others, and fix it.
LOL just read the bullshit you posted to Sozzled. "Because women are narrow minded and shallow". Fucken case closed autistic virgin.1
Good looking people never have issues with girls or guys liking them
It time to really assess whats going on here... and why for the last 20 years no girlfriend
If you want sex... pay for it.. no one will ever know... stop being a wanker.. live a little0
I'd say go in a private sector as a counselor, and you'll earn more money, and girls will be more apt to look at you. They probably now see you as a HS counselor meaning you dont make much. SO no way.0
I would have gone to a hooker ages ago0
Have you actually being trying to get laid though? You can't expect it to just happen. If your not in shape, start going to the gym to start and maybe look through some forums on reddit like;
or your more into books check out
especially their reading club on the sidebar
You have to put something into practice if you want to get results.
And no, never give up.0