I went out with a really nice guy: smart, friendly, handsome. We had one drink so I felt a little more at ease with myself and we went for a walk and we kissed. So yeah, big whoop. one kiss. But it was my first kiss, which I told him (whatever late bloomer I guess). Anyways, now I'm having second thoughts and he's really interested in dating more. Buuuut I'm not. I have realized that I don't want to be in an a relationshio with him, though it seemed like I did on the date. Besides, I don't feel those good jitters at all that you're supposed to feel. You're supposed to feel them, right? Should I tell him that I regret kissing him? I just want to treat him with the respect and honesty he deserves.
Most Helpful Guy
If you truly regret kissing him, then I would maybe consider leaving that part out. That can actually crush a man mentally. Just tell him that you are not interested in a relationship with him, and that you wish him to find someone great.0
Most Helpful Girl
Shouldn't tell him that you regret the kiss. Just tell him honestly that you want nothing more than being friends with him. If ever he asks about what the kiss meant, well explain to him that it wasn't thought about before you did it since you werw both quite drunk instead of telling him that you regret about it. That way it'll be less meanie heehee. :)0