I'm working on reevaluating aspects of myself to grow as a human being. People who have been on the site for a while and who have seen me around could probably answer this. Do I seem like someone who is too reserved to the point of being distant or neglectful or do I seem like someone who would be more attentive? This could be in the realm of friendship or relationships.
When I first joined GAG which was two years ago you were certainly more active than you are now.
I wouldn't say that you're neglectful though you aren't on here as frequent as you once were. I would just say that you have a life outside of GAG and in the real world and that there's more important things that have to come first. Either that or you're starting to become bored with the site like many others that have either left or aren't on as much.
But besides that whenever you are on you still contribute to the site, give great advice, and not afraid to let others know where you stand. You may not be on GAG as much as you once were but I certainly wouldn't say that you're neglectful.
Youve been with this site for a long time and I've always thought you gave really nice advice. You seem to be caring. Although you offer great advice and are indeed attentive, I still think you come off a little detached and defensive. Not in a harmful way, but I just don't think you trust people. So... there's my 2 cent. For whatever that's worth lol.
I think your a very respectful person and have always said what you really thought but have done so in a very respectful way. I think your very caring and open minded individual which are good quilities in my book. I think when you care about someone weather a friend or something more you care a lot about them and probably always wanting to help perhaps to a fault. I don't think you give yourself enough credit and don't take enough time for yourself.
When I was new on here, I used to think that you are very reserved. You give really good opinions, you're intelligent. But you seemed like someone who doesn't have interest in chatting with anyone on here. Came across as distant.
After I interacted with you on QA section, after I've gotten to know you, I realised how cool you are and very friendly. You are a really great person. But yes, I think those who don't know you probably think you are reserved.
I've only been here for almost a year but I'd say you were more attentive than neglectful. I've seen some of your answers and they're always well thought out. You seem to be more active as of late too.
From what I've seen you do seem a bit distant on here but I can tell that you have been been trying to change that. I personally find you a bit intimidating but I'm not sure if others would feel that way as well. You had messaging from those you don't follow turned off in the past so I kind of got the vibe you were kind of reserved and didn't want to be bothered. This is a little off topic but I'm just going put this out here. I really enjoy reading your opinions and I hope you aren't planning on leaving gag anytime soon. You're the first person on here that has really stood out to me. I come from a very conservative area and your views are a breath of fresh air to me. So, I just wanted to say thank you.
Online you come across as articulate and calm/non confrontational. You don't strike me as being really outgoing but I get the vibe you are attentive and a great listener if someone was to come to you for advice. Or in other words you don't seek out people or initiate conversation but if they come to you then you would help or open up.
In person, the fact that you're 6'5 and have a voice like zeus could make you seem less approachable.