I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, so you can say things are getting pretty serious. Yet, I just recently met this guy at work (he just started within the past few weeks) and he is so hot/nice etc. I just get this vibe between him and I, I don't know how to explain it. But I don't want to waste the past 5 years, and I honestly love my boyfriend to death. But its just something new and exciting with this guy. What should I do?
Don't do anything. let it be, drop it
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Break up with your boyfriend.
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See if there is anything between the new guy and you
It would be great if you guys would stop acting rude, it's just a question, there is no need for name calling and I never once cheated on my boyfriend. If I want to act on the crush then I will break up with him, I will not cheat on him. K thanks.
No, don't do it. You don't know how that "hot guy" really is. It's normal to develop crushes in a stable relationship. As long as there's nothing wrong with your present boyfriend, don't throw it away.
Why are you asking strangers on this site as to what to do? Wtf? If you don't want to remain loyal to your boyfriend then breakup with him... And drop those 5 years for that hot guy... Seriously you girls are real hoes... now a days!
be a sloot and screw your co worker then tell your beta boyfriend it was a mistake and that you love him, he will take you back, then keep screwing your co worker, until you get bored of him and your company hires a new fuck buddy for you
best of both worlds just cheat on your boyfriend until he either leaves you, or you get tired of his lame ways
either way you still end up catching dick from someone so its cool
DON'T DO IT? That is the obvious choice? Let's be real though: Your current boyfriend isn't going to be the only guy that you meet that you're compatible with. I mean, we have how many billions of people on Earth? However, if you're willing to throw everything away every time you meet someone you get along with, you're never going to find happiness, or be able to be in a long stable relationship. :( Please be careful to not take those closest to you for granted, and good luck <3
5 years being with someone is along time. You still love your boyfriend a lot so I would say to let this crush go.
Besides, dating someone from work can be a total disaster if he's from the same team as you. If both of you don't work out, there will be conflict created which can cause your work performance to decrease. If he's your boss even worse, it can lead to an HR concern which can get you fired which will give you a bad reference. Thus you cannot use this current job experience on your resume.
just drop it.
It's called lust. What you feel between him is Horny. It's not love or a special attraction. It's your hormones.
I was in the same situation. I broke up with my boyfriend of five years and the guy I was attracted to turned out to be someone completely opposite of who I thought he was. But I had a really good reason to leave my boyfriend, so...
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