I've been dating this girl for a while now. I want to have sex and do stuff with her but she says that she wants to wait until marriage. I really want to stay with her because she is a great girl and I really like her. Advice?
Most Helpful Girl
If she is determined to wait till marriage, then don’t push it. She probably has a good reason to wait, so she will most probably not give in. You on the other hand have a couple of choices. You either stay with her, with the serious intention of marrying her one day. You could also stay with her and just see what happens. After all, a relationship is not all about sex. But if you really can’t go without sex, then try having a talk with her and explain that for you sex is an important part in a relation, especially since you are not really new in this relationship. Another option is breaking up.0
Most Helpful Guy
And do you want to marry? The problem with those girls is that they dont even consider the possibility of us to not want to get marry. Some may even use that to get married with us. Im not saying it'ss your case.
She could just say she's not ready to make love. She might just de hiding the insecurity and fear behind the marriage option. Maybe that's common.
What do you like in her besides the body and the probable fact that she is sweet to you? Nothing more?
I think you 2 never talked to much about sex. Not the "hey, let's do sex", but the "hey, i just found out that if i press there with my hand when im putting my penis inside you, i can give you a triple orgasm, sounds cool" and random sex talk.0