I won't date a guy who drinks alcohol, smokes tobacco OR weed, or does any other drug. I like my man to be HEALTHY. Plus, I like to work out and people who partake in the above substances are lazy. I also diet and this would clearly ruin my diet and it proves they don't care about their diet.
People tell me I'm "shallow" all the time. Why? I'm shallow because I want a guy to live a healthy lifestyle? Go ahead and have fun killing yourself.
Yes, you're shallow
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No, not at all! You want a guy who isn't a lazy, unhealthy slob
Well let's look at Merriam-Webster's Dictionary's definition of "Shallow", (in terms of DATING.)
"Shallow (adj) not caring about or involving serious or important things."
I don't see how someone else's health is important in terms of DATING. You can be completely compatible with someone who is unhealthy and be completely incompatible with someone who is healthy. The two are completely unrelated.
I can see your point of view here, since these are lifestyle choices but you're assuming just because someone does one of the following they're automatically "unhealthy" or "lazy." It depends on how frequent, and even then there are exceptions.
My uncle is an exception. He has no health problems at all at the age of 57. He's been smoking cigarettes every day since he was a kid, he drinks alcohol almost every day, he's done his share of drugs, yet, no health problems (rare exception but it does happen.)
You assume so much. You sound narrow-minded (and this is coming from someone completely sober on all counts.)
I like having a few beers when I go out, maybe a little whisky while relaxing on a Sunday afternoon, wine with dinner. I've also been given the odd cigarette while I've been out drinking with friends (but I don't smoke, and so my total consumption of cigarettes is maybe three a year, often less).
I also go to the gym twice a week, ride my mountain bike in excess of 50km every weekend, and my bodyfat percentage is 14.
I wouldn't say you're shallow so much as a conceited, ignorant fool. And likely a troll too, but there you go.
You would rule out Bud Light or Chickelob (Michelob Ultra Light)? Those aren't beer, it beer flavored water that won't get most guys drunk; at those who have any tolerance level. People who drink beer just on social occasions can't be generalized as being "lazy".
I agree with you with everything I wouldn't date a girl who did that stuff other than drinking, I don't drink myself but if she wanted to I don't have a proven with that but smoking or drugs? Big no no for me
That's not shallow, that's called having standards. Nothing wrong with that.
I won't date a smoker or heavy drinker either. Smoking stinks, it's unhealthy, and the smoke can stick to your hair and clothes as a result of being around them. Plus second hand smoking is dangerous too. Drinking excessive alcohol is usually a sign that addiction may become a problem or he doesn't know how to show you a good time without alcohol in his system. That's lame and will surely be troublesome later on. Health is really important. There's nothing wrong with wanting a long term partner who makes healthy choices.
Doesn't make you shallow. Kind of makes you look ignorant tho. You're generalizing. That's just like saying that every fatime person you see is a slob that sits around eating all day. It's ok to want a healthy guy. But saying that all guys that partake in those activities are unhealthy slobs isn't cool. You come off pretty crass. But to answer your question, no. You're not shallow.