How do I begin a conversation with an ex who cut off contact to get over me?

We both used to date and got serious with her. Unfortunately I was becoming more upset because whenever we set up a date she would bail on me several times because she didn't want her family to find out. (She's Asian, I'm not).

We broke up because I didn't like this secretive relationship and she had difficulties getting over me and I felt bad. So I kinda told her she shouldn't talk to me if she can't be friends with me.

We used to be great friends for 6 years and this has been close to a year now since we talked. Should I try or leave her alone? I only want strictly platonic friendship

  • Try to be friendly.
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  • Leave her alone.
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  • Don't open a door that she probably has probably closed and healed from. Leave her alone.