I'm 20, going to a great college and got a lot going for me ^_^ exept I can't seem to find the right guy!
Please tell me if there is any potential in these candidates?
Please not most of these guys I need to get to know more but want to know which one is worth pursuing or waiting for?
Note: I really did love the third guy but am losing hope and I don't know the other two well enough so I'm leaning toward the last option.
Thank you in advance!
- 18, no college, has a small job, not as mature, lives close by, is nice, cute, not sure about himVote A
- 24, lives close, still with his parents, nice and very smart, seems really into me, not as much confidence, has a job, wants a relationship, not sure about him.Vote B
- 25, completely independent, has a job, car, lives an hour away, shares lots of interests with me, am sexually and mentally attracted to, have slept with (fwb), and totally sure i love, however he is not looking for a relationship cuz of 5 year break up last yearVote C
- Don't pursue any of them and wait for the right guy to come alongVote D
Most Helpful Guy
Just wait a little longer, maybe get to know everyone to the same level.0
Most Helpful Girl
You don't have a chance with the third guy. You fucked him, men don't date women they can fuck without commitment. Very few, like 8% do, but this is very obvious here. He's making excuses because he thinks you're easy and doesn't want you.
Second guy sounds ok. It doesn't matter where he is now, but where he wants to be later in life and what his plan is. His current state can't tell you much about him as a person and whether he can support a family one day. But I make it a general rule to avoid overly shy guys, because they are socially retarded almost by default and that will reflect badly on how he raises your kids and maintains your relationship.
First guy sounds ok, but you gave us nothing on him here. Tho I also wouldn't date any guy I was inclined to describe as "cute". I pet cute things, give them food, I don't date them.
All in all, I'd go for the second guy.0