Last year I started to talk with a guy I liked, he asked me out and at the beginning I wanted to go out with him but I really couldn't (had some problems) so I kept delaying. Then some awkward teeny things happened with me, I found out he was still meeting with his ex, so I rejected him everytime. I had multiple chances to go out with him, but I was so stupid and shy then. I think he thought I was really weird. In the last months I kept lying to myself I don't care about him anymore, but it wasn't true. I still think about him and I wish I could change the past. Would I have another chance? We haven't really talked since April...
Most Helpful Guy
Then its time for you to make a gut check.
If the guy is available, then go for it. The worst thing he can do is say "no," at least, by his own self. Honestly, I would look for other potential partners, seeing as how no one really has their personal crap in order until around 25 or so. Go out, hook up, and learn more about what you like.
And if you keep coming back around to this one guy, then I'd have a talk with him and see where his head's at.
At the end of the day, if you want something, go out and get it.1
Most Helpful Girl
... I found out he was meeting with his ex...
It was not meant to be here, dear, and your GUT instinct told you you were Not feeling right, maybe not only with your own personal issues, but something else that you were Not... feeling.
Now you have another so-callled 'Feeling' and maybe it is Guilt. Or now that things are settled for you, you are reverting back to the Past that wasn't a Blast and find that You may want to give him a call and all.
There is a chance tha the may still be having his own 'Problems' with her and who knows what else he is dealing with right now. However, no harm in giving him a shout of a "Hello" and see how he is now.
But just a word of good advice if you are doing well now, why stir up another brew that doesn't need to be stirred, just in case with seeing his face, nothing has changed and you could end up going backwards again?
Good luck. xx1
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