If a girl in a relationship (engaged), has a hugh crush on guy, thinks about him a lot, texts him a lot, flirts with him, blushes around him, exposes her self near him (bends over, reveales more skin... ) goes where ever he goes, stares at him, every time he pays attention to some other girl, she gets all agressive and mean.
Is it called mentally cheating? is there such a thing?
Most Helpful Guy
yes absolutely and its not mental if you're texting him. if you're really serious you should never regularly text another guy or girl besides your partner1
Most Helpful Girl
Well, it's no longer considered mentally, or even emotionally cheating if she's ACTIVELY doing things to get the attention of the guy she's crushing on.
If I knew if my partner was doing this, I'd assess how often and how severely he's displaying signs/behaviors of doing this. In my case, this has happened to me...
I was in a relationship and I started sensing that he was ALWAYS talking about one of my close friends at the time. Then, I started noticing that he'd seek her advice a lot, instead of asking me. I told that friend that I think he is acting strangely and, specifically, that he talks about her a lot. I knew my friend for a long time and knew that she absolutely hated him, that's why I felt comfortable telling her that he kept talking about her, and I was even honest with her and told her that I think he might be developing feelings for her. I wasn't worried how she would respond to him because I already knew that she absolutely hated & couldn't stand him. Long story short, I broke it off with him, telling him that I already knew his heart was with someone else. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. It's a waste of everyone's time and emotions. He did admit to having feelings for my friend. So, that's where we ended. It seems he never moved on from liking her (he's remained single for 4 years now), even though my friend is happily married to someone else and has a child.2