The guy I'm dating now we're on the verge of being in a committed relation soon until he lost everything business, house, car. This happened in May, and I've been supportive since then, but now it's to the point where I feel like he's totally pushing me away and rather hang out with his friends. For instance anytime I voice my concerns he says "He hasn't been himsel lately" or "I'm not in a good place in my life right now". Granted, I understand the severity of his situation but how is it that he don't see that I'm here for him. I never left his side since it happened, and what frustrates me he hangs out with his guy friends instead of just seeing me sometimes
Most Helpful Guy
Didn't your guy go on a trip with his friends? I seem to recall a similar question from a couple of months ago...
Your guy feels like is is not worth your love. He feels like a loser. If it doesn't matter to him, tell him exactly what you think about the situation and how his actions are making you feel. If that doesn't work, maybe let go of him until he feels like he's back on the saddle...0
Most Helpful Girl
I know you're probably not gonna like this but take a break from him. Sometimes people don't realise what they have until that person is gone or away. He's taking you for granted. You don't wanna go wasting time voicing concerns that just end up being ignored. And if he really does need you, he will let you know. If he doesn't for several weeks then call it quits, you're still young and there's many people out there, and there's no point dwelling over people who neglect you.1