It wasn't that long ago that black women scoffed at the notion of dating non-black guys, but especially white guys. They weren't down with the 'whiteboys' at all, because white guys weren't up to the standard set by black guys. Now, it seems like black girls are on a mission to convince everyone that they actually prefer to date white guys. That's quite a shift. To me, it seems like a backlash to the notion that black men devalue black women by dating girls of other races and claiming to prefer "white" features.
The fact that so many people get angry at this question tells me that I'm onto something. I don't honestly believe that black girls like white guys. I think mostly they're just irritated that so many black guys have begun dating other races of women in large numbers. White guys are nothing more than a convenient second choice for them.
The fact that black women have reacted so angrily to this question tells me that I'm pretty close to the truth. I'm suspicious of the motives of any group that changes its attitude toward an entire group of people so thoroughly and quickly.
Lmao. I dont have to prove shit to anyone (that matters) but myself. Who I date is my business. I don't care about black men dating women women or whoever. They're strangers to me so I'm confused on how I'll care... Plus white men isn't all that just like other races of men. Men are men. What matters is how they treat you.
My first boyfriend was white by the way (I didn't date him because black guys wasn't available either) My boyfriend I just broke up with was black (Didnt date him because I coculdnt get a white boyfriend again)
Idc. Being in peoples business isn't my thing. Again men is men. What DOES matter is how they treat you.
I don't think black girls actually *are* into white guys. I've never really seen any signs of it irl. Black girls liking white guys is an internet fad. It comes across to me as black girls fishing for attention, because so many of them feel rejected and denigrated by black guys. Black guys have this thing for white and Asian girls now, like they think they win some prize by dating a white girl. Black girls don't want to be left in the cold, so they're fishing for attention from white guys.
1. Not all black women. 2. Because it has become more acceptable in society for them to date white men. 3. Because of the minority of black men with "misogynoir" attitudes are louder than the majority who are not. 4. Because they no longer believe the white boy stereotypes.
I haven't noticed this being a thing. I personally have always liked white guys. And black guys. And Puerto Rican guys. And Asian guys. The color of their skin never had much to to do with it. But that's just me.