Both me and the boy I like are quite shy. I think we can both tell that there is something going on between us and other people have recognised it too. I really want to ask him out and/ortell him my feelings clearly , but I'm really shy and he is too. I can't think of a way which isn't overly cheesy and or out of my comfort zone ( due to my lack of confidence in myself ).
If it helps I'm in school with him and we also see eachother in our group of friends out side of school most weekends.
Please help me out ^-^ thanks !
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I am not a shy person myself but a few years ago I had a class with a girl who was. She came up to me, did not say a word, just kind of awkwardly handed me a note. Her shyness was actually really cute. It was a Valentine ’s Day card with nothing but the “TO:” and “FROM:” filled out. I was like 26, 27 at the time and at first I thought it was really awkward, who does that outside of elementary school… but it was effective. I could not get her out of my head at all for the next two days. I may have even had an erection driving home that day. After that we spent a lot of time together and I got to know her really well. My point is that even if you are really shy and awkward there are ways to make it work.1