All guys claim there nice. But its proven to be not true! All the guys i talk to who claim there "Nice" turns oyt to be assholes, jerks, ignores you or cheats! I like tall, funny sarcastic romantic "Nice" guys who like country music. I tend to attract assholes who just want sex/ bootycalls. I dont NEED a boyfriend vut i want one. I belive in fairytales and im a hopeless romantic and i feel like im gonna be single forever and be a old dog lady alone and sad! Anyone got any tips? Advice?
Remember that all people are capable of doing terrible things. That's their ability, to do good or evil. You are in the same boat of being able to cheat, ignore, or use someone. The best way to know if a guy really cares about you is if he is willing to respect you. I personally suggest not having sex for the first few months of dating. Some guys, even nice ones, don't respect girls if the girls are so easy to have sex. So just don't do that and you won't be a booty call. You'll be someone they have to respect because you respect yourself. And though you say you don't need a boyfriend, you do need someone who can love you and respect you. Don't give up and keep looking. He's out there.
this is generally true, but obviously not always: you can kinda weed out the "nice guys" from nice guys in how they act. there are a few ways you can possibly tell (although i have seen both backfire). if a guy is nice to you and not really to anyone else, that may be a sign he's not really a nice guy. they may be nicer to you, but they'll take others into consideration like holding the door or some other shit. also, generally nice guys are more reluctant to say anything because they take your feelings more in consideration. again, not saying that either are fool proof (they aren't), but i think both are fairly accurate tells.
Most people are not really very nice, they just like to think they are and want very much for other people to think they are. They conform to the conventions of good behavior to give an impression of niceness. To spot pretenders watch how they behave when they are anonymous or when they don't have to worry about the other person's opinion of them. Watch how they treat waiters and how they react to strangers who are inconsiderate to them. Watch how they drive.
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