Do you kind of have a hunch from the beginning or do you realize after several months that it isn't going to happen?
I kind of feel like if I'm with someone long enough it is going to happen for me but not necessarily for him.
Most Helpful Guy
Being in love is kind of like knowing if knowing that you'll have a good day when you wake up in the morning.
Its a combination of intuition, honest (with yourself) feelings, and a genuine interest in the one you're with. Hell, if you can hold a conversation for hours with the one you like (and not have it being about your mutual histories, relationships, or jobs), you're ahead of the game, so to speak.
The main thing is that everyone approaches this point and varying rates. You may be in love with someone but they might not be quite there yet, or at least not ready to admit it. You'll know when the moment feels right, as you can't really rationalize this kind of thing.
At least, that's how I've always felt about it.1
Most Helpful Girl
Usually I will get the hunch around 3 months of dating, depending on how often I see them. Anyway I know usually after 6 months! x1