I never act like this and am not abusive at all. 4 days ago me and my girlfriend got into a very heated argument and she kept hitting me on the arm so i squeezed her wrist until she said "ouch, stop". I didn't do anythign else.
We're fine now and made up but i was just wondering cause when i told my friend he said i did not abuse her anyway, while another friend told me i shouldn't have done that.
What is your opinion?
Most Helpful Girl
Pft. I'd say no. Personally.
LEGALLY, if she were to call the police and have them show up, an arrest HAS to be made. In the US, with domestic violence, police officers MUST make an arrest. It is a 93 day misdemeanor. Due to the gravity of a domestic violence situation, an arrest has to be made.
It's not, however, always the man who gets arrested. There have been cases where the woman has started it, then called the cops when the man retaliated/restrained her, and then got arrested for starting it in the first place. Both parties have also gotten arrested.
No cop worth his salt would arrest you for restraining her blows though. The officer would arrest her.
I would advise that you end your relationship regardless. She sounds like a loose cannon.0
Most Helpful Guy
Legally it's abuse if it left a mark to show the authorities. You prolly should notta done that.0