Guys, Sex on the first date?

Hi, so I'm a 17 year old high school senior and last weekend I went over to my cousins uni and slept over at her dorm, we went to a party and I met this guy she's friends with and even though we barely spoke he asked my cousin for my number and she told me he told her he thought I was pretty and stuff so I was like aw so she have him my number and me and him have been texting since, he's pretty cool. Anyways.. He asked me out on a date and I said yeah! This was about a week ago and the day has finally come our date is tomorow but I'm nervous because well... I don't know if he actually likes me or of this is like a hookup/one night stand? Because.. Well I think he likes me because he's picking me up at my house, I told him my parents are slightly strict so he said he'll talk to my mom and tell her he'll have me home before 11pm (my curfew on weekends) he also is taking me to a nice restaurant to eat at, then we're watching a movie:) well.. This all sounds like he genuinely likes me right? Or so I thought until well our texting took a twist and somehow we ended up discussing the possibility of us having sex after dinner and the movie. Does that mean he just wanted to get laid or does he legit like me? I'm not sure if sex on the first date is a relationship killer cus I sorta expected him to maybe become my boyfriend but I'm not sure how he feels anymore since he brought up sex? (Also I'm not a virgin I've done it with only one guy whom is the only other guy I've kissed or dated) and no I'm not looking for a lecture I'm nearly 18 this is part of life I just wana know from a mans perspective if this guy thinks of me as a possible girlfriend or booty call


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  • well honestly it's hard to say. it is possible sex is all he wants and it is also possible he wants a relationship with you. I would honestly just not have sex with him on the date just to be safe. You should also just ask him to be upfront with you and tell you if he just wants sex or if he wants more.

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    • You already know most guys would lie in say they want more keyword (mostly) lol

    • Good point, thanks guys!

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  • If he wanted to ask you out right after meeting you for the first time chances are pretty good he really wants to get into your pants. That does not mean he can’t like you after talking to you a bit, but it sounds like he mostly just wants to get laid.

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  • He is looking for either a ONS or friends with benefits

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  • he is trying to get laid, forget this dude,,,,,

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  • For you I would say make him wait.

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