So okay I'm 14 and all of my friends are in relationships and are kinda forcing me to be in one too but I'm waiting for the right guy that I really like because I think it's kinda pointless to go out with someone I know I don't like and will probably be miserable with and break up with in like a week
But I also feel like the perfect guy isn't out there and I'm gonna wait till I'm old and gray and have 50 cats
just wait don't let your friends force you. you're only 14, you have plenty of time. i have the exact same mentality as you, i waited, and i'm now with a guy i really like. if your not interested in the other person then someone just ends up hurt.
At 14 you have NO risk of being, "old and gray and have 50 cats." You can and should wait until you feel ready. Talk to your mother. She'll help you understand what's going on with you and your friends.
Hun im 24 and I havnt been in a relationship. You are still so young and have plenty of time. At 14 the only thing you should be worried about is making friends. Girls and guys. Im the one whos gunna be all old and grey but not with cats. I prefer dogs.