Under whatever circumstances
- No.Vote A
- Yes.Vote B
- Depends..Vote C
Most Helpful Guy
It has happened to me before. I crush on the person, then learn they are in a relationship (I find it impossible to know about someone in a relationship then crush on them).
When that happens to me, I kind of want to tell them, but I hold back and stop myself unless it somehow gets around to me basically needing to tell them. I don't want to cause uneeded drama and tension, and that is a very good way for her to totally reject and stay away from you.
So I just friendzone myself usually, and just keep living life. It sucks, but it is what it is. Knowing that they are in a relationship or crushing on someone else often deters my crush and gives me a reason to stop crushing/ move on after some time.1
Most Helpful Girl
If he is in a 'Relationship,' it is Best from the Rest to keep all eyes ahead now, @Ashnesh. He is taken and two birds of a feather with another female.
And even if he was a free bird and under no one's wing, it is 'Best' to start off as friends and see here, dear, where it takes you before you tell him anything about your feelings.
Good luck. xx0