I have dated a women in a wheelchair and I didn't find it any different from being with a women not in a wheelchair .I notice people would look at us like it was wrong.would you date someone in a wheelchair? And we are talking a wheelchair bound person who can use the rest room cook and dress themselves.
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I agree with the Anonymous girl. I think it's absolutely amazing. I don't find absolutely anything wrong with it. If the two of you are happy, it shouldn't matter what anybody else thinks. But of course, not everyone could do it. I wouldn't. I don't know if that makes me a good or a bad person, but I know I couldn't. Then again, if I was in a wheelchair, and the position were reversed, I am sure I would look at the situation differently... As to why, well... I guess I want an average relationship- someone who is for a lack of a better word, normal. Normal in the sense that they are healthy, everyday people. I want someone tall, strong, I guess manly. Someone who can pick me up. I don't know. I just can't see myself with someone in a wheelchair. I think it's not just about disability. People also have preferences for looks, skin color, religious views, social status, interests, etc. Obviously I wouldn't be happy with just any tall, strong guy. Okay, I'm getting carried away, but I guess my topmost reason is I want just a regular relationship with someone. Those have enough drama and complications as it is. I've been in relationships where some people did not approve or were not supportive of, and it adds extra pain and stress to the relationship.0