If you met a guy or girl that you really clicked with, was really attractive, amazing chemistry and you got along really well and had fun together... but they lived far away
or if there was someone that lives really close to you and you kind of like them (not as much as the other person) and you're kind of attracted to them (not as much as the other person) but you have easy access to this person
who would you choose?
I would choose the first.
- I don't care how hard it would be, I'd rather be someone I really love and am compatible withVote A
- I'd rather keep my life simple and just be with someone who lives close to me and is easier to be withVote B
Most Helpful Guy
Niether. But I have my reasons.
1. I don't settle. And I don't mean that in an I'm too good for you kinda way. I don't date for a relationship status; I date for the person. If I'm not craving to be with that particular person then I don't date them. I'd rather just remain single. I refuse to let the few small moments of loneliness I experience while single push me into a lackluster relationship.
2. I don't compromise for people, I compromise with people. There are plenty of people in this world that I find attractive and desire to be with so if I had to endure some strenuous circumstance just to be with a particular person I'd just suck it up and let them go. I'll work with a person to try and make things work but I'll walk away from a good thing if it comes with too many negatives. I don't need everything to be happy.
I like romance but I'm not a romantic. I'm a realist and for me relationships are a beautiful luxury of life not a necessity. Not everyone feels the same way and I don't expect them too. But being honest with myself and coming to terms with what I really want and need out of life makes decisions like this pretty easy for me.1
Most Helpful Girl
I'd pick the one I was in love with. However, you have to keep in mind that long-distance relationships usually take a great amount of effort and patience. I don't know about you, but personally speaking am not sure if I would be able to handle it.1