- Yes... If not there will be no second date.56% (18)23% (6)41% (24)Vote
- No... I give the person time to grow on me (2nd or 3rd date).44% (14)77% (20)59% (34)Vote
No, i never expect immediate spark, i think i gotta get to know the girl better and stuff i want make sure it's for real.
I'd say yes, but it depends. If we're talking about someone I don't really know, then I DO need to feel attraction if I'm going to pursue dating them. If it's someone who I'm forming a friendship with, etc. then after getting to know them, that spark may develop, but I can't see DATING an unattractive stranger without getting to know 'em first.
I expect to be interested, you can discover a spark later on when you find out more.
I voted B but after some experience dating I'm leaning toward A. They at least have to be kissable on first sight, and there has to be some enjoyable conversation.
I would say women overwhelmingly do.
Me personally? I expect a first date to rarely have a "spark" unless I managed a same night lay.
I don't expect a spark I think that comes later. I do expect to be attracted and interested.
My answer: "pretty much" doesn't really fit into either of those options
I think poll shows girls on average have more options. Most guys are willing to try for a few dates to get to know them. Girls ditch the guy after one date if he doesn't live up to her expectations.
I could not pick. Either there is a spark or not. I don't ever know what to expect but I prefer asking a woman out that made me tingle first and I consider that the first spark.
Nope. My current boyfriend and I were best friends before we started dating. He asked me out, I declined because I wasn't ready for more just yet. It was a really slow revelation but as we continued hanging out it dawned on me that yeah, I do care for him as more than a friend. If there was any sort of 'spark' moment, it was more like when my friend asked me how I'd feel if he told me he was interested in another girl, which of course wouldn't have sat well with me at all.
We've been together for almost two years now. :)
I am very intuitive, so I know if I feel no spark that it isn't going to come later.
I give someone one or two dates, but no more than that. Then I'm just wasting their time.
There has to be or they or you, are forever in the friend zone.
the person have to know me well.