I've been talking to this guy for 4 months now and he still didn't DTR... The only thing we do is kiss and hold hands but I feel uncomfortable doing that because we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend yet... And the other day I ask him does he see me as a girlfriend and he said he doesn't know we are just getting to know each other but it's been 4 months you should no if you want be as a girlfriend or not.. I feel that he is just waiting for me to have sex with him so he can dip.. What's your guys opinion on this best answer will get MHO guy and also girl.
Most Helpful Guy
If he just wanted to have sex with you, he would tell you what you want to hear to have sex with you. You would have been his girlfriend long ago in that case. My opinion anyway. This guy looks like he's actually the opposite. He's taking his sweet time. He wants to make sure you are the right one and won't break his heart. Do you know anything about his past in terms of relationship? How long did last his last one and how did it end?0
Most Helpful Girl
Four months is too long for him to lead you on. Dump him. Tell him you need more, then make sure you follow through and leave him. Either he will step up to the plate, or he'll go away. Either way is better than ripping yourself apart daily :( .1