Is that bad? I kinda said yes. I really like her too.
Most Helpful Girl
I don't see what could be bad about that. I wanted to be exclusive with my boyfriend from the first day we started dating.2
Most Helpful Guy
Not necessarily "bad" but does indicate immaturity and / or insecurity. Judging by your posted age, and guessing she is close in age, this is not unusual. However, there is something else important going on here. It seems your instincts are telling you to lead her to slow down a bit and take one step at a time. But, have you sent mixed signals by engaging in physical and / or emotional intimacy this early? This can cause a justifiable cry for exclusivity from a person. I hope you are a good man who is driven to look deep inside yourself, and seek advice from other good men, and lead your girl somewhere she will be safe and protected by you. This also means taking charge and controlling the pace and using great care not to lead her on because you selfishly seek personal gratification. Be a man and put her heart at the top of your priority list.1