Ok so right off the bat, I'm a nerd. BUT I'm quirky, confident, far from shy (except when approaching new people, I'm not really shy but cautious), I can be funny depending on your sense of humor, I love learning and science. I'm intelligent, but good with people and emotions. I know just what to say in most situations and I can help people calm down. My hobbies are playing instruments, drawing, and writing stories/poetry. I like to go running regularly. LOL ok now I'm overdoing it but my main point is, I have a personality and hobbies and I'm not your stereotypical "computer-loving, stay-at-home" nerd.
So now I'm wondering how should I approach a girl in different places? Let's say I met one in the library I really wanted to talk to and she was reading, or maybe I saw a girl while running that I would approach, whatever it may be. Where might be some plausible places to ask someone out?
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I find that places such as the library, a coffee ahop, and group events are when i feel safest being approached. If a guy tries to approach e on the streets, i feel intimidated. As for approaching girls, common interests and such are the best way to go. Here are a few examples
"I noticed you are reading (insert book), i've read that one too."
"Marvel t-shirt, nice. Who is your faorite character, mines Thor."0