My boyfriend started working a year ago in a new job he became friends with this girl, he says she's a lesbian, they go out together on day trips into town and get the haircuts together ( he started getting a different style since she goes out with him) they text all the time! He won't let me meet her or bring me out to town with her , he says that's his time alone with his friend and I don't have to ever meet her, I asked can I go town next time with them he started a huge fight and started saying I'm 'trying to stop him going'? I'm not I wanted to go along. . he said no.
We had a argument Friday night because he told me she lives in a farm , I giggled, me being a messer I am.. he didn't like it and stick up for her ' how dare u laugh at my friend like that at least she eats proper meals unlike you drinking your horrible bottles of coke! !!' He compared Me to her. I was in his and he said ' be gone from here before I get out of the shower' so I left and he hasn't contacted me since Friday!
It's Sunday now. Did I do anything? Seriously I'm starting to belive he may like her.. is she even a lesbian? I don't no.. I said something like do u have feelings for her and he didn't say a word. I'm so angry he hasn't bothered to talk to me.. his phone is also off limits I'm not aloud near it not that I even want to but I'm not aloud. He won't introduce me to his other coworkers also or take me out with them when he's going out , he keeps saying ' you don't have to met them and you'll just be sitting there with a face in you!' That's a lie because I'm actually great with people and I love meeting new people. Any advice! please xo
If he dose text me.. whenever that will be.. heat should I say? I want to be confident.
I'm shocked. What do I do now? He has gone longer without texting but never over a girl or a friend like? :( thanks guys. Just wanted to update the situation x
Most Helpful Guy
His excuses and reasons don't make any sense. I think he may like her. And you should be worried and concerned. I think their is more to the story then he is telling you. Also he won't let you look at his phone or meet his co-workers. That is good he told you that he hangs out with her. But I think their is more to their friendship. If you trust him then don't make it an issue. If you don't trust him then you might have to investigate more or break up or take a break from him. It's unfair that he throws her in your face and compares her to you.8
Most Helpful Girl
there's no need for him to not let u meet her. If he doesn't have anything to hide he would def take u out to meet her and have a fun time. You're hurting yourself emotionally. The waiting for his text thing. I know how you feel. It's hurting you so hard. Do you still love him? Communicate this with him. And ask him if he still loves you and have feelings for her FACE TO FACE not text. If he confess to it. Respext yourself enough to leave. If he doesn't, clear out the worries and frustrations with him clamly, don't shout. I feel you. I would love listen if you need anyone at all. I'll be here.1
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