she's very nice and kind of quiet, I can't even get her to talk on the phone with me. I have a date with her on Tuesday and I feel like it will be a lot of me talking and her just smiling, which is ok but how long will it take for her to get comfortable with me like how she is with txting?
Most Helpful Girl
If she doesn't get comfortable in 2 weeks i mean, its a loss. Im usually shy, It totally bums me to be that why, but since I've met this new guy i've been getting more comfortable with him, and its been 2 weeks, so just give it time, but not too much time.0
Most Helpful Guy
My girlfriend is like this too, when I with her, she barely speaks, hides her mouth with her hands. She doesn't like speaking on the phone and get's really shy and anxious around people, to the point where she once literally ran away rather than meet a relative of mine. I love her, and when writing, messaging and texting she's really funny and expressive, throwing down inside jokes and sarcasm and cynical satire and puns even innuendo (she turns real pervy online). The problem is I just can never seem to get her to open up in person. Honestly, I just ignore it a go with the flow, give her time, so to speak.1