Like , why'd you do it? I've been cheated on and have been the cheater and I wanted to know why you did. Where you sad , was it just physical attraction? Anything. I'd love to hear some of your answers and no I'm not gonna judge.
Most Helpful Guy
No and I can confidently say I will never cheat. It's something that goes against everything I stand for. I'm sorry you've been cheated on you do deserve better.2
Most Helpful Girl
I only cheated once, on my high school boyfriend aged 15. I found out that he'd been flirting with other girls and planning to dump me for someone else so I went to one of my guy friends because I was distraught and he comforted me and then in one moment it just felt right to kiss so we did. I told my boyfriend and he left me but he was so upset but I felt so guilty but also kind of justified because I'd spent so long feeling sad in the relationship it was nice to feel special again. I saw the affect it had on the boyfriend and that was enough guilt to make me never cheat again. I've been cheated on a few times since then and it hurts everytime, it's the mental reasoning you do with yourself after you find out, that's the worst bit. Feeling like an idiot and like there is something wrong with you. Don't miss those days! Nowadays I'm in a really great relationship with someone I trust more than anything, enough to have kids with him and I can see that he would never do anything to hurt me.2