Okay, so here's the deal; I am not a big girl, I am a curvy girl, but I am at perfectly healthy weight and stuff, I'm just a little short that's all. My boyfriend however, is totally opposite he is a very tall and thin man, and It makes me feel a lot bigger than I am, and that results in me being slightly unhappy and uncomfortable. He obviously hasn't commented on it ever and I haven't been able to talk to him about how much of a hit at my self-esteem this is. Anyway, my question is: Boys do you think its bad that a girl is bigger than you? And Girls do you have any experience with a situation of this kind?
Most Helpful Guy
Not at all!! :) And it shouldn't be too hard to bring self-esteem in general up in a conversation, so just go from there and head for size. Good luck! ;)1
Most Helpful Girl
Yes! I'm a curvy girl not overweight but I definitely have curves and I used to be self - conscious and it really got to me because of the boy I was dating he was tall and slim but he told me he found it sexy that I had curves which was awesome. When I opened up to him abou my insecurities he told me how much he loved my body type and he told me how his friends also love girls with a little extra apparently a lot of guys find it sexy. Own it :) it also helps to dress in clothes that enhance specific areas to make yourself feel good. Try to dress in ways that make you feel great in your own skin!1