I found a message from my boyfriend's ex asking to get back together and he said he had to figure things out first, then proceeded to ignore all other messages from her. I confronted him about it and he said he didn't want to be an asshole to her and that he would never leave me and that he loves me more than anything.
I already know it is hard for him to be mean and to say no to people, but I also think saying no isn't even that mean especially if you are dating someone. Should I believe him?
Most Helpful Guy
Sometimes saying no, can be one of the hardest things to do, just give him the benefit of the doubt0
Most Helpful Girl
Meh, jealousy is a useless emotion. The only thing that jealousy indicates is how insecure you are. It says nothing about your boyfriend.
If you have a man that’s untrustworthy, then he shouldn’t be your boyfriend. If he’s your boyfriend, then you have no choice but to trust him completely.
If you don’t trust him because you’re insecure about his friendship with his ex, you’re only going to accomplish the following:
1-) You’ll make him feel like crap because his own girlfriend doesn’t trust him.
2-) You’ll make him feel trapped because he’s dating someone who reads his text messages.
3-) You’ll make him feel that he can’t be honest with you about his friendship with his ex because he can't.
4-) You’ll make him feel that he can find a woman who does trust him.
5-) You’ll make him feel that he can’t be himself around you, which is the highest compliment a man can give to a woman.
Trust is the foundation of any relationship, and if you don’t have it, you don’t really have anything.