I really like a girl who Is 14 years younger than me. No I'm not some pervert or anything she's 21 and I'm 35. She's everything I can imagine I need. She's more woman than some woman I've dated that are my age. For her age she's been through hell. Anyway I'm just so intetested in her. So what is the largest gap your willing to have in age? Whether it be older than you or younger than you. Curious for opinions.
Most Helpful Girl
2 years younger and 10 years older, Currently with a 28 year old. would be open to bigger gaps once I'm a bit older, but I would never date anyone 16 years older simply due to the fact that that's an age that could have fathered/gave birth to me and that freaks me out personally.
also there's the whole life expectancy issue... :(
if you love her, go for it and eat healthy XD0
Most Helpful Guy
Well I think 5-6 years age range should be fine. In my view I think 14 years is too much of a difference but if you both are fine with it, then it shouldn't be an issue for either of you and especially you.
Okay, I just want to ask you one question. Since your age is 35 and she is 21 don't you think your maturity level will be much more than her, don't you think your thought process will be much different too? don't you think there can be some compatibility issues or could arise in future because of this?
Please don't misunderstand me, I am just asking, it's your life, it's your choice after all, but have you thought about all that?
I wish you good luck since you are taking it forward but I would still suggest you that just watch out for the differences, since you are dating a woman 14 years younger than you, just be prepared.0