My girlfriend is on her period. We've only been dating for 3 weeks and when i visted her today she was all cranky and we play wrestle and this time she was not up for it :/ Instead she just cuddled up with me and that was it, we didn't do all the fun things we did last time. Is this because she is on her period? She also cooks for me everyweek and did not cook anything, instead we ordered pizza. I also kept poking her to get me some water xD but then she said "CUT IT OUT!" :/
Did i do something wrong here? or is this how it is when you have your period. Should i be doing something or anything i can do help? Today was very bland, we basically watched a movie and then did some school work, it was never like this the other times.
Most Helpful Girl
That's basically a period for you. Our hormones go crazy and we don't know what we want. We can go through several phases and mood changes in one day. Just be patient. We also can't be bothered to do anything, as you mentioned. It's just too much effort. What all girls, when i say that, i mean from personal experience, all you feel like doing is sleeping, blankets. cuddles, movie, ice cream, chocolate, coffee. Just don't do anything annoying such as poking which can easily flick the mood, as you've experienced2
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Most Helpful Guy
Best to assume the worst when it comes to periods. Don't be annoying. Offer things without seeming condescending, or even without talking. Assume she wants something to eat, so have it available. Assume she wants a glass of water, so grab one for her as you get yours and set it aside.
Periods are very painful, and very frustrating. I mean, we can only see what's happening on our end. I can't imagine how pissed off I would be if my body forced me into something I'm not.1