My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and we do kind of see each other every other day and he usually tells me to sleep over at his house every other night. I guess I just got so attached to him that whenever he hangs out with his friends I get some way like upset, or mad, or sad I don't know. But I want to stop this. His friends are the types who get drunk and party all the time. And whenever he hangs out with his friends they always hang out until like 2-3am. Sometimes when he's with his friends I get a little mad and stop texting him completely.
I know this isn't good. But how do I stop myself from always feeling like this? I really don't have any friends that are willing to hang out with me until 2am lol. I only have my best friends that live close, but they are guys and I don't think my boyfriend would like it if I hung out with them until 2 am..
What should I do? I want to stop feeling like this? Please help... :(
Thank you so much
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It is nice spending time with one's significant other but noone can meet all the relational needs of another person. We all need to spend quality time with our other friends and family. All this you probably know. Try focusing on how good it is that your boyfriend has friends and that he gets opportunities to enjoy those friendships. Its good to want the best for those you love.
Use the time when he's out partying to do something you enjoy. Don't just wait around for him but use the time to do something you like. If there's a hobby you have that he doesn't really like to join in much then nows the perfect time!
It might still be hard but hopefully a little easier to deal with unwanted feelings!
All the best0