Guys think it's harder for them to get with someone than it is for the oppsite sex and that's not true, girls struggle just as much as guys when it comes to finding someone, so guys should really stop with they're pity parties when it comes to that, they're just as shallow as girls.
I think it's safe to say that men tend to approach the women in the dating scene a lot more then women do. (I'm not saying that some women don't approach, because some of them do) but a majority of the men do the most when it comes to approaching and finding a partner (sometimes making the effort, initiating etc) now before any girls get there panties in a knot. Us girls are capable of approaching and initiating when we chose to aswell. I'm just saying we should do it more often.
Both genders have an understanding of what they prefer and what they dislike in a potential partner and that can sometimes rule out or minimise the factor of finding a partner due to preferences, qualities and appearances.
Yes guys can be shallow as girls can, but we all don't want second best when it comes to finding a partner.
You have the advantage in the dating/social scene. We are expected to approach you, and you are the deciders. You decide if we are worthy or not.
Even if you approach us, you still have the advantage of femininity, especially in this specific day and age. Many timid men are conditioned to be frightened by your femininity, since they think that if they can't get a date with you, then the only option left is to basically worship you until you cave in to their demands.
I do agree that fat or severely deformed girls do not have the advantage most other girls have, but the average girl has the narrative in her favor. Even taking away who approaches who first... men work out, change their diets, their attitudes, and their entire lifestyle completely just so they can get your approval. And sure, you can say women do the same for men, but we are not the deciders, you are. That's why it is so easy for you, because you decide. There are exceptions to this here and there, but I see nothing else as true except for what I am saying now. No amount of angry and dismissive Internet comments can make me think that what I have observed is not the truth.
No its not. Girls don't have to actively pursue anyone to find a partner, girls don't have to try ad alter their personalities to find a partner. A girl can go out a find somone to have sex with within an hour. It always e for a woman due to the fact they are being pursued. I'm sure you have at least one or two guys who are trying to have sex with you. OPTIONS if a man doesn't go out , find a women, convince her to talk to him, and like him. he has no hot. women don't have to do any of this
Of course it is easier for girls to get a partner. If you're picky and can't decide or just reject guys for no reason thats another thing. I have seen guys so desperate, they would even shag a dinosaur if they had found one.
No guy is complaining that it's easier for y'all to find guys to marry, they're complaining because it's easier for y'all to get dates and sex. Marriage isn't the issue confronting most frustrated guys. They can't even get dates, so marriage is distant and immaterial to them.
by the way, this phenomenon isn't exclusive to men. Go on dating message boards and take note of the dozens of 40ish women complaining that men under the age of 60 want nothing to do with them. Yes, the script flips later, so enjoy your predominance while you can.
I believe it is easy for the females to find a partner before us males because women sometimes get bored with men and just want to try something different and there's gay lesbian bars around and they can pick up women from there us guys its hard to find a women sometimes especially if you feel like the women is really beautiful that she deserves better then you its hard trying to make a match with a beautiful women for us women are complicated sometimes.
Women get THOUSANDS of suitors on dating websites and still complain that they can't find a man. If a woman keeps her online dating profile from 18, in a space of 10 years, she'll have at least 10,000 men who want to have sex with her.
Men CANNOT get 10,000 women to want to have sex with them in 10 years. Before the internet, women were limited to dating the men from her social circle. Technology has increased the cost of pussy as it cause more competition from men. The more men trying to get into a girl's pants, the harder it is for any one man to have sex with that woman. Supply and demand.
When women complain that they can't get a man, what they really mean is that their standards are so high, that the man they want is so high value that he's already in a relationship. They could have A man if they wanted to, but they just don't want to.
When men complain that they can't get a woman, it means that he cannot get laid. This means that a man's dating pool is significantly smaller than a woman's. Men who are single usually get rejected by women a lot, whereas women don't get rejected as much as men do.
Women are single by choice. Men are single by fate.
When your a victim of being rejected and you been abuse victim and see more females getting dates yes it does make you wonder. But i think girls have as much of a problem as a guy does to find someone to date.
It's easier for the girls because they look much more beautiful (percentually speaking)
I don't think that. I can just as easily pick up girls and a female can pick up guys.
Because If both have low standards the girl is guaranteed a partner whereas a guy still has a hard job at getting one.
It may not be easier for y'all to find the *ideal* guy, but at least y'all can get dates in the mean time. Many guys struggle to even get that. The trend is towards a dating Pareto principle, that 80% of girls only want the top 20% of guys. Girls are increasingly holding out for only the best guys, perhaps because they've had hookups with top guys in the past and believe that they can get one to commit to them. This all creates a dating imbalance that leaves a great many guys on the outside looking in while girls seem to enjoy so many options. This tells us that girls have things easier in the dating sphere.
Well with those who do it's probably because they lack every objectivity in their view and they have some illusions seriously.. And they seem not to be very intelligent either because to all the guys that are single there is a pretty much equal number of girls that are single as well since in our population there are about 50% male and 50% female so yeah, it should be obvious really but it isn't to them 😂 Anyways I've never met a smart guy in real life who actually believed that shit so it's really only limited to some special guys online that never go out I guess, in other words, nothing to worry about lol I still have plenty of faith in humanity.. 😂
there's approximately 50/50 in terms of population so... guys are complaining about not getting sex. not not getting relationships. id be interested to know how they could calculate where all the extra single guys come from. are there so many more lesbians than homosexuals? doubtful.