Whenever I go on a first date there is a question that always pops in my mind: should I kiss him, as in a lip lock and not just a peck on the cheek, at the end of the date? Will he think I’m too easy if I do or will he think I’m a prude if I don’t?
So usually as the end of the date approaches, I tend to become quite awkward, not knowing how to act when it’s finally time to part.
My questions are: Girls, do you usually kiss him on the first date? And guys, do you expect a girl to kiss you on the first date? Is it maybe off-putting if she doesn’t? Do you usually take the initiative and try to kiss her or are you waiting for her to make the first move?
Most Helpful Guy
It really depends on the girl and vibe of the couples.
Sometimes i hit it off right away with girls and sometimes it takes a little more time to feel comfortable. As far as "should i kiss or not" it's up to you.. if the two of you connect and you want a kiss... great. If you don't feel that but you want to continue dating...
" Hey i had a really good time, lets do something again" hug and ciao.0
Most Helpful Girl
Kissing on a first date can feel really good, but at the same time, there’s no going back from the first kiss. It may leave one or both of you wondering if things are going too fast. You may wonder if you actually like the person you dated, or was that kiss an accidental mistake that you come to regret.
You need to remember that many people may not be comfortable with the idea of kissing someone they’ve been with only for a few hours.
Of course, if you’re living in a big city where life is fast paced and people don’t have time to take it slow and easy, you may see that kissing on the first date is more of a norm than an awkward thing to do at the end of the date.
But generally, even if there was a great potential of a perfect romance, that first kiss could complicate things and make you hasty, because you’d want to judge this person as a potential partner even before you get to know them well.
On the other hand, some guys you date could see the first kiss on the first date as a sign of commitment. And they may start behaving like your partner on the very next date, which can make things so darn awkward, especially if they still feel like a stranger to you.
Or it could get worse if they’re expecting another kiss or something more on the second date because you kissed them on the first date.