Ok, so I went on a date with this guy on a Friday. Chemistry was insane and anyways we ended up sleeping together. Which I know not good. In the morning he was very sweet and went out and got coffee and croissants for us. After he left, we were texting the whole day. Then the next day we went on a walk on the water and got ice cream, watched a movie, and then well slept together again at his place. So basically between Friday-Monday I saw him twice and slept together and over twice. He has texted for the past three days straight all day but has yet to set up another time to meet. Am I maybe being strung along or is he generally interested? Or maybe I am going crazy because I guess its only been three days since we last saw each other. Anyways help please!
I've done this to a girl before. Ultimately it comes down to how compatible you are and if he's interested. I don't think sleeping together too soon would be a factor at all. He'd either get bored and not care anymore.
When I have connected with girls, I usually make breakfast the next morning and call them a cab or an Uber if they don't have a ride. Sometimes I call them later in the week and in some cases I've "disappearred". Most often I try to tell them that I think they're awesome, but just not ready for a relationship at the moment.
From what I'm seeing, he seems like a good guy and interested. Sleeping with him too soon, maybe. If you wanted to take it slow, you should definitely confront him. Even though it's only been 3 days, those 3 days might've felt like years. You should ask! Never hurts to ask than to wonder.
MOST of the time, when you give it up that quick, that's all its ever gonna be.
BUT, sometimes it works out! Three days really isn't that long. Y'all aren't together, and even if y'all were, a relationship shouldn't start out seeing each other more than 2-3 times in a week. Just be patient and keep being you, because he just may like what he sees!