I am 30 and single.. Want baby... with mild fertility issues. Im having dreams that I am pregnant. To wake up with reality. I desire to date a man. Between 18-20. They are always horny and they are fertile with potent sperm. With that fresh sperm, it would happen so fast. I could feel it now. I mean were can I meet one who want a baby. A lot of them have their whole life ahead of them, and want fun not responsibility. If asked a lot oof them would run away from the idea. Are they gonna wanna purposely get a 30 yo pregnant.. What are your thoughts.
Honestly, most guys would have no problem getting you pregnant, but would not want to be a father. Also, if you just want him to be a husband and father and act right away to get pregnant, you will most likely end up with a guy with an impregnation fetish, rather than one who really loved you and had the maturity to be a loving husband and father. I'm sorry, because I know your body craves having a baby growing in it. But, I think what you want is the whole package not "only" a guy who breeds you. It's like marriage. It's not the "wedding" that matters, it's all the days that follow the wedding, e. g. the "marriage" that matters. I love children, but, I view it as when a man and a woman love each other so much, their love expands so much it creates and additional life as a reflection of their love. I wish you the best and that you find the man you are looking for : )
I feel like someone who is 18-20 might not have the correct state of mind to answer that question properly. Even if they say yes, it would probably be for reasons other than having a child. Even if they did truly want a child it's kind of a risky situation for you both seeing that someone that age probably wouldn't have any or much money to support the child, leaving you to do all the work. Also the fertility of sperm has more to do with appetite and drug use more than anything. Of course there are genetic factors, but most men won't start to lose fertility until after 40 years old. My father had 3 children past the age of 40 even still. Which I don't know if this happens to be a reason why, but he exercises nearly daily. So maybe he has well produced sperm. Either way, I'd go w someone who is older and more established.
Ones that would stay with you and your child for life? Yeah, probably or rather definitely no. But if just as an alternative to artificial insemination I'm sure my 20 years old self would be gladly of help back in the day.
I'm wondering why your age says 25-29 and I'm wondering why you are insisting on a younger man when I'm quite sure you stated before that you are into older men. Would it not be more logical and easy to just try and date a man your age? Whatever age that may actually be...