The first man, Brandon, he has been hurt, as badly as I have. I have known him for quite some time and we know a lot about each other. I want to protect him and be there for him and I care about him, a lot. The second man, Cliff, he's very innocent although he isn't at all. He has helped me with my heart break of my ex and although I am slowly getting over him, there's a piece of me that my ex still holds. Cliff is slowly regaining all of my heart, even the piece my ex has sucha tight hold of, although I know he doesn't want it. Cliff makes me feel calm, comforted. The picture always makes me think of him because he makes me happy and he makes me happy about myself. The way he makes me feel is the way my ex made me feel, but better because Cliff doesn't lie to me, not once, and I don't have any doubts about my feelings like I did with my ex.
Most Helpful Guy
Cliff sounds like the better choice since this Brandon guy seems like someone whom you'd have to 'maintain'. As in if you only like him because of this one past experience you have in common... that's not much to work on. Especially if at some point you're going to move on from that past experience and thus you'll two won't have anything to relate to each other.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think you like Cliff more since you spent time writing about him more. We might have experienced one event with many people. It doesn't automatically makes us like them. So I think you are confusing love with something else. Plus as ThisDudeHere said you will soon move on and find nothing in common with Brandon.0