I'am really busy and i have not taken out my girlfriend in a long time. She has not said anything but i didn't do any suprises like flowers or anything. We see each other about 2 times a week only because of school.
My questions is... are texts enough? or getting you flowers randomly and taking you out once a month is better, and should i put more effort into this. She has not said anything bad yet but this other girl i talked to said i should care for my girlfriend better. Is this all true?
If we're both genuinely busy, I understand and though of course nothing can beat hanging out face to face, a phone call to stay in touch at least every other day would suffice.
Don't listen to other girls who say you don't know how to treat your woman right. I've heard that way too many times, so many of my friends telling me I shouldn't put up with 'such treatment' as if a man is only acceptable if he has nothing going for him, and instead devotes his life to pampering the girl to no end.
You should ask your girlfriend if she's fine with how things are at the moment. I personally wouldn't be content with just texts, but your girl may be different. Besides, there are many ways to surprise her even without taking her out. For example, if you have access to her place, you can sneak in and leave cute post-it notes everywhere saying what you like about her and how she makes your life brigther, or invite her over and when she comes, have a movie she wanted to watch for a long time and her favourite food ready.