Today my friend told me a guy had a huge crush on me. I was surprised because at school I feel completely invisible, except to my friends. So for my friend to say a guy has been crushing in me fore months it threw me off. Lol why would someone like me, Im nothing special. Like I couldnt imagine anyone waiting for me to pass by just to sneek a glance, or me being on someone's mind before they slept. I just can't imagine it. What about you guys?
In my mid twenties, when I was still single, I took a second job delivering pizza for Domino's. One of my coworkers confessed to me that she had had a crush on me for a long time, well before we ever worked together.
How can this be? Well, I lived in the delivery area for this particular Domino's store. I had ordered pizza in the past and she had delivered pizza to me. Of course, I was completly oblivious to her interest at the time. I found out from her later, that after the first time she delivered to me, she went back to the store and had the assistant manager make an entry for my address in their computer system. The entry said that all deliveries to this address were to be handled by her if she was on shift. Apparently, I had my own personal pizza delivery woman, I was just too unaware to notice.
She and I did wind up being boyfriend and girlfriend for a while. You never know where a crush can take you.
Nah, funnily enough, I don't imagine anyone crushes on me. And even if they did, I would soon rip their heart out with the reality of my closed-off-ness and penchant for brutal truth. I can be very soft and the sweetest, most passionate lover, but also, shut the door very easily.
The idea of somebody having a crush on me just seems absurd. I don't think I'm that great looking, and I don't really have anything to offer. I've had girls crush on me before, and my only thought is "why?" One actually told me she liked me because I scared her (I have an angry resting face).
1. It happened twice and I knew it but looked the other side, acted oblivious because they were too young in my opinion. 2. It happened, but I didn't know it, though I was crushing on her too. I heard it decades later from a common female 'friend'. :( 3. Given 1 and 2 it must have happened without me ever knowing it too.
I'm kind of like you; there were girls in both Middle School and HS that silently had a crush on me. More than half of who I never found out till recently because they didn't tell anyone who would tell me. I recently recall one woman I met in a club a few years ago who I only knew before and during elementary who specifically remembered I had a special snack in kindergarten since I was allergic to a lot of foods.
How often does someone remember something about you from kindergarten who you rarely if ever talk to in elementary? Weird.
There has only been one girl who had a crush on me in my whole life (that i know of). I was really surprised when i found out, and it felt good to actually be wanted for once, but unfortunately it didn't do much for my self esteem since i wasn't interested in her.
I honestly can't imagine anyone else having a crush on me again though. The idea just seems weird.
I am down with everything you wrote. I feel the same way about myself and am surprised when people have any kind of feeling for me whatsoever, even though it happens from time to time. Thanks for posting it, I don't feel so alone now! :) PS From your photo it does not surprise me to learn someone is crushing on you.
honestly... no I look average, I'm shy and a little bit introverted, I'm weird and sometimes look a little bit creepy... girls seem to have no interest at all in me in real life so I don't think anyone ever would have a crush on me :(
I really don't understand why guys crush on me, especially since there are sooo many girls out there who are better in every aspect. It's confusing as fuck, I'm not that special :S I totally can relate to how you feel.
Not at all. Because I am introverted and only open up to friends, family etc. And I have different kind of interests compared to people in my age; i rather talk about astronomy, dr who, games, writing books, cosplay...
Many don't do that and I get bored by "normal" hobbies. Means, it's hard for me to talk about it (also small talks bore me). So yeah, I'll end up forever alone for the rest of my life^^
Good thing is, I am can deal with staying single forever. Iguess xD